Community rallies around Moll family
Area communities are banding together to help the family of Jesse Moll.Β
He died last Tuesday afternoon after the 2007 Dodge Durango he was driving collided with a Reliable Sanitation garbage truck driven by 38-year-old Steven Leible II of Waterloo on Route 156.
Jesse was traveling eastbound when he veered off the roadway to the right and overcorrected to the left, police said, colliding with the garbage truck.
Monroe County Coroner Bob Hill pronounced Moll dead at the scene, while Leible sustained minor injuries.Β
Friends and family of the 37-year-old Red Bud man said he was known for his kindness.Β
βHe was extra caring,β Vanessa Moll, Jesseβs wife, said.Β βWeβd go out to the grocery store, and Iβd turn around and heβd be helping an elderly lady out with her groceries. He was always there to help people. He was an amazing father. He did anything for his kids.β
That niceness came despite a difficult childhood that saw Jesse move around between relatives, childrenβs homes and foster homes.Β
That lack of a family shaped Jesseβs priorities as an adult.Β
βHis biggest goal in life was to have a family, and thatβs what we had,β Vanessa said. βWhen I met Jesse, I had my son, Anthony, and he was only 4 going on 5. Jesse raised him and now heβs 15. Jesse was the father Tony never had.β
βMy favorite quote that Jesse told us and our kids was βI love you more than my heart can hold,ββ she added. βHe would say that every day.β
In addition to Vanessa, Jesse is survived by their children Anthony Rodriguez, Alayna Moll and Abel Moll; sister Carly Hamilton and many other relatives and friends.Β
Many of those friends come from Sun Basket at Rock City in Valmeyer, where Moll worked as a junior operator. He was leaving work when he died.Β
Finding a job like the one at Sun Basket was one of Jesseβs chief goals.Β
βHe struggled because my husband had a lot of tattoos, so it was hard for him to get a job,β Vanessa said. βWhen he got into Sun Basket, it was like he found his home.Β
βI know the day he left this earth, he was really happy because he had finally found a comfortable job,β she continued. βWe were starting to get back on our feet. We had the kids. Everybody was happy. We just moved into a new house that was a little bit bigger so our kids could have more space.β
Jesse had other interests, but family was paramount in his life.Β
βHe loved the Chicago Bears,β Hamilton, his older sister, said. βHe absolutely loved being with his family. They were his whole world.β
Although his family was so important to him, Jesseβs kindness extended far enough to make a much greater impact.Β
Now, the community is helping his family through numerous fundraisers.
Several of those are led by Stephanie Baker, a friend of the Molls.Β
βVanessa called me whenever she was told about the accident,β Baker said. βWhen she did find out (Jesse died), you could just feel how scared she was. She said, βStephanie, I donβt know what Iβm going to do. What am I going to do?β So I was thinking in my head, βWell, itβs time to get working. Weβre going to help Vanessa out.ββ
Bakerβs efforts are wide-ranging. She has placed donation buckets for the family at Gibsonβs Discount Drugs and the dollar store in Red Bud. They are filled almost every day.Β
Country Financial and The Clothes Line Boutique in Waterloo are also accepting donations.Β
She set up a bank account at First Bank called the Vanessa Moll Family Fund so people could donate that way.Β
She also started a Facebook fundraiser that has raised $880. To find the link for that, visit the Republic-Times Facebook page.Β
βIt just completely caught like wildfire,β Baker said of the fundraising efforts. βThere were so many people that Jess made a difference in their lives. People were trying to find me to see what they could do. It was amazing.β
Some of those other people have also started efforts of their own.
Approximately 100 Sun Basket employees came to Jesseβs memorial visitation Friday, all of whom donated.
Love Abby, a Randolph County nonprofit that supportsΒ children by providing for basic needs like school supplies, basic hygiene items and Christmas gift, also helped raise funds.Β
Eternal Ink Tattoo Studio in Hecker performed piercings for $20 on Sunday afternoon, with all proceeds and tips going to the Moll family.Β
Chelsea Moore, a body piercer and tattoo artist who created the fundraiser, said she pierced about 50 people that afternoon.Β
βI was really heartbroken to hear about Jesseβs passing,β Moore, an old friend of Jesseβs, said. βHe was always so sweet and kind. With his outward appearance, maybe itβs shocking to people that he would be so sweet and kind. He was a good friend to me, and I love his family so I just wanted to do something to help.βΒ
In addition, the Red Bud school district held fundraisers at both its schools, getting more than $1,300.
Finally, Waterloo Lumber Co., where Vanessa works, donated a deep freezer filled with food.Β
βMy work family has been amazing through all of this,β Vanessa said. βI couldnβt be more honored to work at a better place. Everybody has been awesome, but my boss has been outstanding for my family.β
Hamilton said the assistance overall has been invaluable.Β
βHe always said nobody would come to his funeral,β she remembered. βItβs amazing that so many people do care. Itβs overwhelming for us and itβs helping us all get through this.β
With the outpouring of support, Baker said she hopes to use the money to buy a modest car to replace the one Jesse was driving in the accident. That was the only one the family owned.Β
βEven if we didnβt raise this amount of money, which is so awesome, just the support that theyβve had during all this has changed everything,β Baker said. βItβs hard enough to deal with losing the most important person in your life on the week of his birthday and three weeks before Christmas, but when you see so many people that care about you and him, nobody can feel bad about that.β