Ukranian girl blossoms in Columbia
The trip from her native Ukraine to Columbia is more than 5,500 miles.
But getting Victoria Kern to where she is today — in a safe, stable home with a loving family, ready to graduate from Columbia High School this Sunday — was by far the roughest journey sheâs ever taken.
Adopted from Ukraine by a Columbia family at the age of 15, along with her then-14-year-old biological sister, Victoria said she never felt welcomed in her new home.
After bouncing among the homes of her adoptive parentsâ relatives, and even spending five months with a family in Italy, Victoria finally found a home with Timothy Holmes and Christina Morris, also relatives of Victoriaâs adoptive parents.
â(Morris and Holmes) are amazing people, really generous,â said Victoria, now 19.
Knowing very little English when she arrived in the U.S., Victoria attended CHS her freshman year.
âEverything that sheâd hoped, to be a new family and a new life, started to unravel,â said Tiffany Falgier, Christina Morrisâ sister and Victoriaâs mentor from the time she arrived. âFamily and friends pleaded desperately with the parents to try to calm things down, but it was already too late.â
âIt was horrible,â Victoria said. âThereâs been a lot of crying.â
But she persevered, even as she moved among eight houses and two school districts in three years.
âVictoria had two roads she could have taken,â Morris said. âThe give-up road would have been way easier.â
Instead, she stayed in school and kept her grades up. She tried to live the life of a normal teenager.
âIâve got goals,â Victoria said. âIâm not going to get depressed about what happened to me.â
She stayed at the Morris-Holmes residence on several occasions when she found herself without a stable place to stay. In November 2012, Victoria found what she had been searching for since she entered her first orphanage at the age of 8 — a home and family of her own.
The decision to expand their family, adding a teenager no less, was not one Morris and Holmes made lightly.
âMy husband looked at me one night and said, âItâs the right thing to do,ââ Morris said. âItâs not what we planned but maybe it was someone elseâs plan.â
The couple have a daughter in middle school, and for a couple months, Victoria had to sleep on their couch. Morris and Holmes finished building Victoriaâs bedroom earlier this year.
âNow I can close the door and be private, do my own things,â Victoria said.
She was named her CHS senior classâs March Student of the Month. After graduation on Sunday, she will attend Southern Illinois University Edwardsville and hopes to become a nurse practitioner.
Victoria looks forward to living in the dorm and playing volleyball — something sheâs wanted to do since arriving in the U.S.
She also is secure in knowing she never has to worry again where she will be staying — or if her welcome will wear out.
âVictoria has a place at our home for as long as she needs one,â Morris said.